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Use the gesture as a courtesy

Giving or receiving an object with both hands is a common way to show respect in Korea. It is especially useful for gifts, business cards, documents and drinks in a formal exchange or with someone older.

You can hold the object with both hands or use your right hand while lightly supporting its forearm with your left. Seoul's visitor etiquette guidance describes both-handed handling of drinks and supporting the right hand during a handshake.

The gesture is a custom, not a requirement to perform the same movement at every counter. People use one hand in casual exchanges or when carrying something. Adapt to your mobility and the situation without making the interaction awkward.

At a counter

When handing over a passport, payment card or document, turn it so the recipient can read it. Use both hands where comfortable, and give the person time to take it securely.

If a counter has a tray for money or documents, use it as directed. A receipt being pushed across a busy counter does not require an elaborate response; a polite thank-you is enough.

When exchanging business cards

Offer your card with the text facing the recipient. In a formal meeting, stand if that fits the introduction and use both hands. Take a moment to read a card you receive, and check how the person would like to be addressed if you are unsure.

Keep received cards neatly on the table during a meeting when convenient, then put them away carefully. Avoid writing on someone's card without asking.

Workplace training may describe an order in which visitors or junior participants introduce themselves. Follow the host's lead rather than interrupting an introduction to enforce a sequence.

When pouring or receiving a drink

At a formal meal, hold the bottle with both hands when pouring, or support your pouring arm with the other hand. Hold your glass with both hands when an older person or host pours for you.

These customs do not oblige you to drink alcohol. You can decline politely or ask for a non-alcoholic drink. Let the other person know before they pour.

During a handshake

Offer your right hand if a handshake is appropriate and comfortable. You can add a slight nod and lightly support your right forearm with your left hand.

There is no need to grip the other person's hand with both of yours or to bow deeply while holding it. Respond naturally to the greeting offered, and use a verbal greeting or nod if you prefer not to shake hands.

Hands exchanging business card in office
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How to say it

EnglishKoreanSay it
Here you are. (offering something)여기 있습니다.yeogi itseumnida.
Please take it.받으세요.badeuseyo.
Thank you. (receiving)감사합니다.gamsahamnida.
Here's my card.제 명함입니다.je myeonghamimnida.
May I have your card?명함 한 장 주시겠어요?myeongham han jang jusigesseoyo?
Sorry — my hands are full.죄송해요, 손이 없어서요.joesonghaeyo, soni eopseoseoyo.
Please give it to me.저 주세요.jeo juseyo.
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Source: Academy of Korean Studies (한국학중앙연구원) · checked 2026-08-08